Christian leadership looks for people who are shepherds. Jesus was a shepherd. We are all called to be shepherds. The priests are shepherds of the flock but by far not the only one. The role of the father in the family is not any different. He is not there to frighten children with compliance. If he is a serene presence, he will be seen as the shepherd who provides security and peace. He will create an atmosphere where closeness will develop, where all voices can be heard and listened to.
A listening attitude is needed in our homes. A couple that talks and listens to each other remains one. They continually reinforce their commitment to their understanding and openness to each other’s needs. Their bond is love and its proof is in the eagerness to respond to each other’s expectations. There is no discord on how to raise the children, of what to allow and to forbid. There is no rivalry in winning over the children’s sympathy. Jesus was able to maintain his unity with the Father through prayer. We need these moments of prayer too as a person, as a family and as a community to listen to the voice of the shepherd, for only He can assure us of safety and eternal life.
